How can these bluggers change the world?

A group of bluggers

Yes, I have spelled it right, bluggers.

I got this word from this blog post: which, true to how most portmanteau words are born, arose from a Blog Club, or Blug. If you’re interested, the author of the above post is the third from the right – and I’m the one in blue! The other bluggers also write in the blog, who often meet in this beautiful garden.

So I have joined a new Blug. And these bluggers are no ordinary bloggers, we have come together with a common aim, and age. Pictured above is part of the vanguard of a new platform that is being created called, in which bloggers who are aged 40 or over can use a space that is specifically created for them.

Why post 40?

We needed somewhere that represented similar bloggers, a collective world of like-minded people, a group who have participated in the same learning curve and have been exposed to the same inhibitions while trying to cope.

Our kids have grown up in a world of internet, websites, mobile devices, etc, whereas for us computers were these fantastic huge things that only highly technical people knew how to operate. Later we progressed onto word-processors instead of typewriters, which meant we could make a mistake which could be deleted and it wasn’t the end of the world! Eventually as we embraced laptops and tablets, we watched as things around us were adapted and ‘improved’ to make things easier, faster, more possible, the unbelievable believable…

OK, a lot of 40+ bloggers may have grown up with computers and stuff (I only started to use them in 1985), but it isn’t second nature to us. Our offspring may live and breathe technology, but I’m sure they have evolved and developed because of the age they live in: the joke that it’s the 5-year-old who programmes the X-box or whatever still holds true.

What is 40+?

Bloggers over 40 have a different mindset to those who are younger. They find the technological process a bit harder to grasp, but in doing so they tend to ask more questions. These may be seen as irrelevant or superfluous by the younger set, but the older user has a more cautious nature, borne out of past experience from a world where everything wasn’t so easy or instantaneous at a touch of a button, information wasn’t so readily to hand, and everything progressed at a much slower pace.

The older blogger is more likely to think before doing anything. They will envisage security issues, they want to know why something works as it does, they want to understand the processes involved and relate them to how they think, how they have experienced from their life in the past. This means they have less spontaneous intuitive responses, they don’t immediately ‘get’ a function or a new icon, they find it harder to search for an alternative way if it suddenly appears different to what they are used to.

Why these bluggers?

My headline was not meant to be misleading – these bluggers could change the world for the 40+ blogger! So much on the net is becoming increasingly more technical, ever rapidly evolving and changing as new facilities or platforms are developed, new concepts of communicating or connecting are created, and a new way of life is expected of everyone.

And the older blogger adapts wonderfully! Although we embrace these changes at a slower pace, we make full use of them at the limited capacity we choose or select, whichever fits into our existing lives. We wait patiently until new technology becomes glitch free, we watch and learn from the youngsters as they try it out and explore its capabilities, and then we take the bits we want and use them to the fullest extent.

Once this new platform,, is ready, 40+ bloggers could find out more from these bluggers if they chose to join. Here will be an environment of like-minded people, where they can ask a question without feeling stupid, where issues they can relate to are discussed, where subject matters that appeal to them are blogged about, where things are explained using appropriate language that everyone can understand.

You’re welcome – if you’re the right age!

Please don’t feel we are creating an exclusive clique, we’re just providing a service to a group that may find things heavy going or feel left out. There are a lot of bloggers out there who are over 40. They may not be blogging to make money or to promote a business, they may just enjoy writing, want to connect to others on the web, feel a need to express themselves on an online platform rather than through traditional pen and paper.

If you’ve yet to reach the magic milestone, don’t despair! Make contact via the website to join if your birthday isn’t far off. There may be strict entry requirements, but really this platform has been created by these post 40 bluggers for other post 40 bloggers, who understand how you think and know what you want. And it’s easy to join, first tweet “I’m in. #post40bloggers” and then leave your email details via the website.

The secret of using social media to attract more blog subscriptions

Social media and blogsI really enjoy a good discussion about social media on Twitter.

Last month I wrote a tweet that asked: “Do you think people are lazy because they prefer to comment on social media rather than under the blog post?” It had been one of many I had placed into my Twitter schedule to try and promote my post about “Where should readers comment, blog or social media?” and it aroused the interest of Thom Scott who felt compelled to respond.

The best thing about this discussion is that it developed into multiple threads at the same time. Thom’s overzealous reaction to what I had tweeted meant he answered in several tweets, sometimes not even waiting until I had commented on the first one he had put out. This was brilliant fast moving engagement, but it did need a platform like TweetDeck to keep an eye on where each thread was going, or I would never been able to keep up!

Here is a selection of our conversation:

Creating a community

What Thom means by this is that social networking should be a social activity. This means cultivating a relationship with your regular tweeters (or Facebookers or wherever you maybe) to form a sort of community of like-minded ideas, subjects, blog niches or lifestyles.

Commenting on social media rather than back at the blog is more fluid, less formal, encourages freer responses and lowers inhibitions, especially when it comes to thinking what to write. Somehow it’s reassuring that these comments won’t be preserved for ever, but will be enjoyed and embraced at that moment in time, the communication will be received and appreciated, and will generate further replies that may not be forthcoming on a blog.

Creating a community on social media does mean finding and forming a proper friendship with a smaller amount of people, because if you are connected to several hundred or even thousands of people on Twitter, there is no way you could communicate with them all the time. Even though Twitter is very ethereal, it’s beneficial to gather together a regular crowd you know will read your tweets, as much as you will read theirs, by collecting them within a list or stream and monitoring their contributions throughout the day.

A trusted source

Twitter is a mode for social media conversations, which need sifting through to find something worthwhile to note, read and act upon. Therefore to survive and cut through the noise, you need to make sure your contributions stand out and deliver value, provide something people can really sink their teeth into, both enjoy and appreciate, and want to read more.

Thom says not to become just one of the voices they like. It’s very nice to be popular on social media, to get lots of retweets, favourites and comments, but you could be doing this for a long time and gain no more than a happy, healthy community. Although there’s nothing wrong with this, without call to actions, valuable destinations from your links and worthwhile incentives to get more readers to your blog, all this albeit pleasurable activity could be no more than a time drain.

Your newly made community needs to be made aware of your status. Being as social as possible, you need to be viewed as a ‘trusted source’ for excellent information, so whenever you promote your latest post by tweeting a link, accompanied by an enticing promotional introduction, this will create the promise, generated by successful past experience, that delivers something good to read on the other side.

How unmissable is it?

If you continue to deliver value, people will learn to expect this, and if your posts provide information that changes your readers’ lives, they will want more. By promoting yourself as the ‘go-to’ person for a particular subject, making your posts freely available via social media will enable your readers and potential new readers to find and access them.

It’s easy for your readers to miss a promotional tweet delivering the latest blog post, even if you regularly publish at a prescribed time (although that would greatly help the search engines as well as your readers), and realistically you can’t expect every one of your Twitter followers to put you on a list so they can watch out for whenever you post. Building up to the event with preliminary tweets may help, but won’t safeguard everybody to be waiting on tender hooks for when you click that publish button (even famous bloggers don’t always have that privilege).

The answer is to encourage subscriptions to your blog. Research into which service is best for you, and be aware this can be done even through your newsletter subscription, as some automate a regular email listing the latest posts. This may be preferential for some readers to receive a catch up reminder at a regular time rather than each subscription announcement cluttering up their inboxes whenever a new post is published.

Make them feel special

To get your readers to subscribe you need more than just publishing great stuff on a regular basis. Wherever these incentives and prizes are placed, both on social media with links to entice readers to click and find out more, or on the blog where there is a captive audience, will depend on what is available and whether it appeals or not.

Some offer e-books or white papers, some promote fabulous outcomes as the result of their knowledge, but only the best bloggers in the world need only say ‘Sign up to my newsletter’ accompanied by the relevant fields to fill in. The more successful and wide reaching a blogger is, the more luck they will have in attracting subscribers.

Give them a reason to stay

Your community shouldn’t be confined to only on social media. A blog is a great place to culture such a gathering of like-minded people, bloggers and others who are interested in what you write. But to retain your newly-gained followers and keep them sweet, it’s necessary to treat them well and continue giving them what they want, accompanied with prizes of value.

Social media is fluid, a blog is steadfast and dependable. You shouldn’t make it like a fortress, but like an open house where people can come and go, invite new friends and engage with whatever is going on. I know this already happens in social media, and perhaps it’s a bit easier to do this there, so add in the applications and plugins that allow social media commentaries to appear on your blog near the comments section. This will bring Facebook or Google+ into your blog, amalgamating each of them, blurring the edges and creating a more sociable atmosphere.

Your blogging community has the freedom to contribute wherever they want. This is good, but they need to be incentivised to stick with you. Don’t lose new friends by not providing excellent material that makes a difference to them. Keep up the interest with prizes, membership stages with different levels and goals to strive for. It’s a full time job to maintain a popular and well visited blog, so maybe get in help with guest bloggers or collaborators to keep the interest factor going.

How to use your visitors

Once you’ve gained your community, it’s time to make use of them. Thom has revealed a simple chain of events that your readers could pass through during their time with you. It needn’t be formal, as it works best when done organically, and its success will depend on what you give them and how they respond to it depending upon their needs and aspirations.

Relationships within social media, which also includes in blogs, makes all your effort worthwhile. There’s nothing like having a sense of belonging, being part of the crowd, so cultivate this scenario and look after your tribe. It does need a lot of prompting, reminding and regular contributions, as a lead that goes cold can be very difficult to resuscitate, but with a good fire and plenty of nourishment, the world will open to all sorts of possibilities.

The sacrifice of scarcity

This is an interesting concept. Should bloggers promote all their posts on social media? It’s a bit like the 80/20 rule, share 80% of your stuff for free or virtually free, but retain 20% for which you can charge big prices.

I can see where Thom is coming from. If you want to encourage more blog subscriptions, don’t give everything away. But his concept of people scanning down every Twitter stream to find old posts is a bit far fetched. You will need the correct platforms, patience and perseverance, and a determination and thirsty desire to read every previous post by that particular blogger, plus a tenacious capacity to lie in wait for each new post whenever it is syndicated to social media.

I don’t think this will happen. Social media is a phenomenon of now, very rarely to people bother with the past, and the future hasn’t happened yet! If you do get a stalker that wants to moderate everything you’ve done, as long as they aren’t a nuisance or hindrance, good luck to them. And it can be quite flattering, with a boost to your self-esteem, something we all need to incentivise us to produce more content!

Let me know what you think…

Secrets of a Killer Blog Post: Content

Here’s a guest infographic for you about content being the secret of a killer blog post:

Secrets of a Killer Blog Post: Content


Choosing a topic

Although it’s a good idea to write about what you know, otherwise your post won’t be any good or display any kind of authority, it’s also important to be aware of what your audience wants to read. You may have a load of subjects you think your audience ought to know, but do they really want to read it? If you go ahead and write about it anyway, unless you have presented your content in such a way it is irresistible to your readers and they can’t get enough of it, never mind if your post is absolutely wonderful and packed full of good and worthwhile content, it will probably be a flop.

The answer is to think how your audience does. What do they want to know? Remember they don’t know what the solutions are, they only know their problems. Find out what these are and then manipulate the answers to contain the information you want to share with them. The content provided needs to be dressed up so that your readers are satisfied that their problems are being addressed, and will fully benefit from learning the solutions in the answer you give them.

Original and curated content

Curated content is not a cop-out. It’s a good thing to research into what other blogs say about certain subjects and gather the information they have shared. The bad thing is to actively copy this content into your own post, as plagiarism is not tolerated by both readers and search engines alike. The answer is to analyse what you have gleaned, think about it and regurgitate it into your own words, preferably adapting it with your own slant on it into the bargain.

Creating original content is hard work (hence why curated content can help you). Originality comes more easily to those who have taken the time to stop and think about their subject, weighed up the pros and cons, and formed their own opinions about it. Writing original content will appear to be less stilted and cumbersome than curated, for unless you are a skilled copywriter who is used to gleaning and compiling a piece of prose from information presented before them, directly re-transcribing someone else’s stuff into your own is not an easy task.

Curation is great for getting a much broader scene about a subject. Writing your original point of view about it broadens it even more. If you are able to extend your expertise by putting across what you think, based on personal experience, observation and reasoning on a particular subject, it will set you apart from your competitors who haven’t bothered to take on that valuable thinking time.

Be mindful of small details

Of course spelling and grammar are important. Neglecting them will ruin your reputation and make your post less appealing to read. I’ve often been turned off by a badly written post, not only because of the mistakes above, but because of poor sentence construction and lack of good practice. Now I’m not going to get on my high horse and say that all writers need to have a grade A in writing, but there are plenty of published posts that show no evidence of being read through properly in order to be edited, as sometimes that’s all it takes. And I won’t get into a strop about a comma being in the wrong place, but content with incomplete sentences, awkward and misconstrued meanings or a turn of phrase badly put together doesn’t give a good impression to your readers.

Be aware of your blog’s style. Are you conversational, controversial, opinionated, observational, knowledgeable or whatever? Whatever you do, decide upon one or two (as long as they don’t conflict) and stick to them. Chopping and changing how you deliver your content will only confuse your audience. This doesn’t mean you should only write words; using other media (images, audio, video, etc) are a great way to maintain the interest of your readers. But be aware of what kind of blog you are creating, because that is what your audience expects, and if you fail to deliver this kind of content they will disappointedly leave in droves.

Be consistent

Some bloggers say that consistency in presentation is a powerful mechanism, and certainly this is the case of when it comes to recognition. Readers like to feel reassured that they have arrived at the same place, and to read content that fulfils their expectations for quality, expertise and entertainment values. Therefore you must strike a happy medium between only posting content that provides the standards your audience wants to see, and having enough available to do so on a regular editorial structure.

Of course this is much easier if there is more than one author. Collective blogs have the convenience of being able to post frequently and consistently, as every editor should know their timetable and the quality they are asked to provide. A sole writer will find it more difficult to maintain a regular content schedule, even with an editorial calendar, so in this case make sure quality overrides quantity. Don’t just publish any old rubbish to satisfy the system, posting a brilliant post late is much better than slotting in one that is below par.

How blogversation makes comments portable

Last week I was extremely pleased to be able to interview Suzan St Maur, a proficient and celebrated blogger who is also following the subject of blog comments with me on the net, and who first introduced the concept of blogversation. Obviously this needed to be properly explained, so we got together on Skype and had this discussion. I start everything off:

Tell me all about blogversation.

“A colleague of mine, a good friend locally, always said: ‘Don’t just post on Facebook or LinkedIn ‘Here’s my new blog, read it’, because that doesn’t give people any idea what’s in it for them if they do read it.‘ So I began to write a lead about my blogs in social media to basically say what the blog was about and what was in it for the reader. But the danger of doing this was that people would start discussing the issue right there and then, without going to your blog to read the full story.”

Do you mean discussing on social media where they saw it?

“Yes, that’s right. Well, I thought that’s interesting, because it’s not necessarily a bad thing, particularly with Google Plus, you have this plugin where you get all the comments about a topic that you promoted on Google Plus can be transferred automatically onto your own blog.”

Which you’ve already got installed, haven’t you?

“Yes, and it’s brilliant, because it really gets the conversation going, and I don’t know if you have been on my site today, but I’ve used this as a follow up to an article that I had recently published, which was actually a guest post, it was a conversation I had with somebody on LinkedIn about that article. I asked the guy’s permission, obviously, and he said yes, sure, go ahead, so that’s another example of blogversation, if you like, the way the conversation started on my site and moved over to LinkedIn, and onto Google Plus, and has come back to my site again.”

So you took the conversation from LinkedIn and Google Plus, and you wrote a follow up post using that information?

“The discussion I had with this chap was on LinkedIn was pretty much self explanatory, so I wrote an introductory paragraph and cut and paste the discussion I’d had with this chap, after I asked his permission to do it first. I linked to his site and his business, so any appropriate extra publicity goes his way.”

So was this a separate post or a continuation of the original post?

“Well, it was kind of an offshoot from the original post, which was about how to write business proposals, and we started talking about the inappropriateness of some companies who submit business proposals or repitch for stuff without having been asked to do it yet. That’s quite a good example, as there was a lot of discussion on LinkedIn, and then the author who wrote the original post joined in on Google Plus to discuss the same issues. So that’s why I thought ‘it’s not just blogging, it’s not just social media, it’s blogversation’ – conversation that moves around, from blog to social media and back again, because at the end of the day you want to get people back onto your blog, particularly if you’ve got a commercial site – it’s quite important to keep them there so they know about your business as well as the blog. But there are ways of doing this, and you find that this cut and pasting idea is one of them, and I’ve done it two or three times now. Most people, when you ask their permission, are quite happy for it to be shared, particularly if the original discussion has been on a public platform and it’s in the public domain anyway.”

So you’re recycling comments from elsewhere, which otherwise would be a wasted opportunity on content that’s generated purely by interaction, and lost if it’s not brought back to the original source which it actually refers to.

“Yes, that’s right, and obviously some of the comments you get on Facebook or Google Plus are not really worth bringing back, but if you get a really good discussion going, as happens quite often, then it seems a shame that it has to stay on LinkedIn or Google Plus without the benefit of sharing it on the blog for new readers, who don’t necessarily visit on the same groups in LinkedIn.”

So why do you think it’s easier for people to comment on social media than on the blog?

“It’s because people’s fingers are very lazy. They see something and rather than click through to your site and read it all, very often they will start thinking and talking about it there and then. You don’t want to stop them commenting, wherever they comment, it doesn’t really matter, as long as they engage with you and on what you’re saying, but the problem was in the past that people would do that, which effectively would be lost because you couldn’t share it with people going back to read your blog. But now there’s this tool on Google Plus and I’ll be interested to see if the others will follow suit.”

Facebook has already done one.

“Has it? Well you can imbed posts from Facebook onto your site, but you can also do it from Google Plus and Twitter, apparently.”

There’s actually a plugin I saw on another blog that gives the option of either commenting in the comment box, or you can also do it on Google Plus or Facebook, and wherever you do it, it shows up underneath the post. It’s called the Comments Evolved plugin. So blogversation, what are you doing with it right now?

“I’m taking the concept about how to write blogversational comments on other people’s blogs, so they work across social media as well as in an individual blog, so there is that portability – it’s introducing portabilty into blog commenting really.”

I like that, portability! So because there is this trend to comment elsewhere, it doesn’t matter, you can still take it and put it back with the original.

“With the commenter’s permission, obviously. You can’t just lift it – well, I don’t suppose many people would object if the original comment they make is in the public domain, they can’t really object, but it’s kind of nice to say ‘Look, do you mind?’.”

It’s all part of relationship building anyway, isn’t it?

“Yes, exactly. But as long as it’s given in a business context, you give people a link to their website when you use their comment; it’s all grist to the mill.”

We then changed the subject to the big blogs like Copyblogger that had announced they were closing the comment facilities and moving to social media. 

What do you think about the big blogs closing their comments?

“It was that that made me think about blogversation, as it was them who were encouraging their readers to go and talk about their stuff somewhere else, weren’t they?”

The reason why they said this is because they had a huge amount of spam.

“Yes, but there are very sophisticated spam filters available, so I don’t quite buy that. They may have had other reasons as well, I think one or two other people felt the same way, that they won’t being totally honest about their real reasons.”

Another reason they were saying is that they were having better discussions on social media than they had in their blog comments.

“I think that’s true – if you look on my site today, that discussion I had with that guy on LinkedIn, would I have had a discussion like that on the blog? – I don’t know. Whether I like it or not, people are going to spend more time looking around on LinkedIn than on my blog.”

Do you think it’s much easier to have a quick fire conversation on social media than it would be on a blog? Is the response quicker?

“Yes, it’s quicker from that point of view, because if people are given a choice of spending half an hour on my blog, or half an hour on LinkedIn, you can guess what they’re going to do. It’s about creating social media discussions that are portable, preferably back to your own blog. But I wonder why Copyblogger don’t bring their comments back, but perhaps they don’t need to with their traffic.”

No, they’ve already got masses of traffic anyway.

“So maybe they are more interested in encouraging people to talk more about their posts elsewhere than on their site. Perhaps they thought they were getting more readers overall by gaining discussions out in cyberspace rather than on their blog.”

So to recap, blogversation is a discussion about a specific blog post on social media rather than on the blog, and these comments are then republished with the original post, to continue the conversation in situ and connect it with its source. There are various blog plugins available to automatically syndicate this practice, but if the conversation happens in a platform that has yet to be connected to blogs, the content has to be physically transported.

As Suzan pointed out earlier, blogversation is not just blogging or social networking commenting, it’s a conversation happening in a different environment, and requires connecting back to its source for future reference and the enjoyment of other readers who many not frequent those particular social media outlets. With the problems of content duplication aggravating the search engines, syndicating this procedure is the most appropriate procedure, but clever editing could overcome this if necessary. 

Let me know what you think of blogversation in relation to blog comments, both Suzan and I would be most interested.

How to write great comments that will get your blog noticed

Getting people to write great comments on your blog can be an uphill struggle, but that’s no excuse why you can’t set an example by writing your own great comments on other blogs! Here’s some points to consider:

How to write great comments that will get your blog noticed

And here’s some code you could paste into your own posts (via the text mode) if you want to share this infographic with your readers to help them write great comments!


It’s not second nature to think of including the blogger’s name at the beginning of the comment, but if you do it will show you have taken the trouble to find out who the author is. Keep it brief and simple to avoid unnecessary sincerity, otherwise it can get a bit creepy – include the name naturally somewhere within the first paragraph. The same thing applies when responding to your own commenters on your blog, thank them with their name at the beginning of your reply.


During that first sentence, it would be also wise to confirm the post’s subject in a single sentence, summarised into your own words. This proves you have read the post and have taken the trouble to understand it thoroughly – a necessary requisite for you to write great comments that are intelligent and balanced. You’d be surprised how many people skim read posts so rapidly they miss the main point entirely, so that their responses are inadequate, inappropriate and irrelevant.


It would be wise to validate the post’s subject as useful information, even if you are going to add to it, or even oppose it with an alternative suggestion. The author has taken time to write this post, and may have researched into its content, so don’t undermine it by saturating it with your knowledge or belittling it with your point of view. You don’t need to go overboard doing this, a simple acknowledgement will suffice.


A comment needs to be succinct and focused, therefore keeping strictly to the subject matter at hand. Don’t go off at a tangent, especially if your preferred topic is totally different to the post’s content. Do not write too much, since this is not your blog; when you write great comments they should not be longer than the post they are contributing to. Keep to the main point introduced by the author, and remember to be as relevant as possible within your reply.


Not many commenters offer helpful suggestions or advice within their feedback. They are quick to criticise, offer observations, acknowledge a point well made or provide ingratiating praise, but rarely do they build on the information given within the post. Another tip for you to write great comments is to offer examples that clarify the advice given, enhanced by referring to a personal experience or a favourable outcome, and these work best as a story or in a scenario the reader can relate to.


You don’t have to agree with what the author says in their post, but if you must express an opposition to the subject or content provided, it’s much better presented in a nice and helpful format rather than a tirade of criticism or derision. It’s also useful for other readers if you can offer a full and valid justification to your disagreement, complete with examples or references that clarify your point of view. Be insightful with your responses so others can learn or defend themselves accordingly.


It’s always worth being nice when you write great comments, not only to give a good impression, but to set the scene for other commenters. Showing respect through politeness is more likely to result in your comment passing through moderation to publication, and receiving a positive and constructive reply from the author or other readers. You will gain nothing by submitting a contribution full of harsh or insulting words, except that you’ve got your grievance off your chest; this will help no-one else and undermines the tone of the host blog.


The kind of words you use will encourage and excite people into reading your comment, therefore it’s worth considering which examples will help them to recognise the passion and enthusiasm you have towards your mission or cause. Readers will relish a well-written and positive response, and this positivity will certainly be infectious enough to result in similar contributions from others. If this leads onto more engagement and discussion within the comment section, it can only benefit everyone.


Nobody likes reading bad prose, and this also extends to when you write great comments. Concentrate on producing good spelling, grammar and sentence syntax to ensure your contribution passes through moderation, as a sloppy and inferior comment not only places you in a bad light, but lowers the tone of the host blog and the comments it could attract. This practice may arise from mobile devices where thumb-work and predictive text may be to blame, but that’s no excuse for a bit of proof-reading and editing before publishing.


When you write great comments, think how your readers will respond. Don’t produce feedback that’s so aloof nobody responds to it, use language that would encourage a discussion, stimulate a debate or result in a flurry of approvals, confirmations or even opposing responses. Being controversial, providing value through useful tips, extending the conversation and contributing helpful and constructive comments will focus other readers to check out your blog as well as stimulate an appropriate response.


It’s really worth taking the time to thoroughly read the post, consider your options and formulate your point of view so that it is constructive and helpful towards continuing the conversation or extending the content. A well thought out contribution will result in a much better comment, something that is useful and adds to the post and provides a good impression for others to follow. Don’t fall into the trap of rattling out a quick series of comments just to satisfy your SEO requirements, really think about the implications and follow ups your comment could create.


Don’t leave your comment hanging in mid air. You wouldn’t do that in a post, so the same criterion should apply when you write great comments. Structure your response quickly and concisely towards a natural close, drawing it back to a wider context to leave the way open for other commenters to contribute. As well as encouraging more comments from others, the points you raise may invite the author to visit your blog to read what you write and comment in return, thus resulting in a positive and useful blogging relationship.

Some of the comments I’ve had from other posts have questioned the function of leaving such responses as outlined above. Many comments are usually quickly composed affairs, resulting from the natural impulse to ‘have your say’, and these do have their time and place. But if you have an ulterior motive of creating awareness about you and what you do, spreading knowledge to benefit others, helping others out of kindness, forming new blogging relationships or even gaining more traffic back to your blog, the practice of when you write great comments is more likely to result in a positive and responsible outcome.

Magic Moment: how to publish a podcast in a post

Talking about bloggingIf you don’t want to write, publish a podcast instead!

I have come across many bloggers who are too scared to write, or moan that they can’t find the time, or find the process of writing laborious, confusing or infuriating.

But instead of writing them off (sorry, pun!), I ask them: “Do you like speaking instead?” or “Is it easier to say what you want rather than writing it down?”

The answer is invariably yes, which means these bloggers should publish a podcast blog. If you have the gift of the gab, a natural tendency and facility to speak, combined with a wonderful accent (I once came across a hypnotherapist with a Scottish burr, and recommended she should publish a podcast instead of a written post, and as a result her business skyrocketed), then let’s get you talking!

Another lady came to me and said that since she had severely broken her arm, typing had been very difficult, and she hadn’t been able to update her blog. She was a coach and a public speaker, so it seemed to me very natural that she should continue via podcasts. After all, her broken arm hadn’t affected the way she spoke.

I introduced her to Audacity (downloadable free from the internet) and she experimented with creating mp3s. When she was happy with a small collection, she asked me how to put them onto her blog. It’s actually very easy once you know how, so below is a Slideshare presentation to show you:

I’ve often been asked to speak on MarlowFM radio, as I know some of the presenters there. The programmes are usually recorded, and one episode resulted in the mp3 being sent to me. Through Audacity I broke up the recording (deleting the music bits because I don’t have the required licence to publish them) and created mini-podcasts. Here is the one I used in the Slideshare above:

Writing as a conversation


Oh, dear, I hate listening to myself! But if you don’t mind the sound of your voice, it’s a great idea to publish a podcast blog. It’s much quicker and easier, and if you go wrong, well never mind, delete it and start again! As with writing, practise makes perfect, and experimentation makes things more exciting, both for you and your audience.

This is a wonderful alternative to the written blog, using free facilities available from the web, as well as your imagination, exuberance and enthusiasm, not to mention your expertise and knowledge. So why not give it a go? And let me know by sending me the URL of your newly published podcast post so I can listen and comment too!

The disturbing truth how WordPress favours hosted over self-hosted blogs

WordPress has made some changes within version 3.9.1. Whereas nobody relishes change, sometimes it’s necessary to make improvements. And in today’s world we all know the importance of security upgrading, keeping up with trends, providing more facilities, maintaining a more valuable presence, etc.

But what is really irritating is when an upgrade results in some facilities being withdrawn. It wasn’t that these features weren’t useful, or even used regularly, the fact their presence ensured professionalism and control. They marked out the better blogger from those that didn’t know they existed, and for some it is important to present your posts up to a particular standard, and infuriating when this is suddenly not possible any more.

I’m talking about the ability to create white space around images. Or to put it another away, to control the width of margins and borders around our pictures we place in our posts or pages. What do I mean by this?

Showing words butting up to imageOn the left shows an example of words butting up against an image. The result is unprofessional and the lack of white space make the text more illegible.

White space around imagesWhereas the example on the right shows how the margins separates the text from the image, making it easier to distinguish the differences between the two. You may think I’m being pernickety about this, but as I write this post I am exasperated by the lack of white space WordPress 3.9 1 has allowed me when I preview what I have written, as the margin width granted to me by default is not enough in my opinion.

But to justify the title of this post, I have found that the facility to adjust how wide your margins are around your pictures has not been omitted from blogs. I am very pleased about this, as these bloggers don’t have the ability to rectify this problem by installing a plugin (Advanced Image Styles v2.0 for users, and thanks to Mari Kane for providing this information). They rely on the goodwill of WordPress to recognise their needs and remember to include everything that has been present before as well as including new exciting features.

So what is available for that isn’t for 3.9.1? Let’s look at the options shown once the image in edit mode is clicked on, via the pencil icon, to reveal the Image Details menu.

First, what provides its users: Image Detail menu showing margin width features

Everything is now incorporated into one menu, with a clickable advanced option to reveal the extra facilities. In the second half you can see the ability to create a border for your picture, and as well as the width (via pixels) there is now a colour option (brilliant!). Below it there is more increased control than before over how much white space you can add in for your margins, allowing you to insert individual pixel amounts for all sides of your image (also excellent!).

But if you are a lowly user, this is what WordPress 3.9.1 has left you with: Image Detail menu withdrawn margin width control

You can check that these are from different locations due to the image URLs revealed under the ‘Link To’ option. As you can see, no facility for border or margin width adjustment is available.

I don’t understand this omission, especially since it was available previously before the upgrade. If users had never been able to adjust their margin widths without the need of an additional plugin, then so be it. But to take away this facility, without ceremony or reason, is cruel. Does WordPress think that we won’t notice, and that what they think is a suitable default margin width provided as standard for any inserted images will be accepted or tolerated?

I know that the facilities in need to be top notch and always available, otherwise people who won’t get or can’t afford their own hosting will miss out and this blogging platform will lose its reputation. But don’t undermine users when making upgrades and changes; the people using this, particularly the untechnical ones, don’t deserve such treatment.

Gemma Pears and the National UK Blog Awards: an interview

Gemma Pears and Becki Cross
Gemma Pears and Becki Cross

Gemma Pears, the founder and co-organiser of the National UK Blog Awards, took time out of her busy schedule to talk to me. Creating and managing this mammoth national awards certainly revealed some fabulous managing skills, and I was intrigued to know more about the driving force behind this successful venture.

First I asked her what made her decide to do a blogging award. She revealed she had worked in the Events and Marketing Industry for quite a number of years, and Events was originally her passion, but then she worked with a number of businesses and during that time developed a knowledge and passion for social media, and in particular blogging, and how these attributes contributed towards developing business publicity and awareness.

“I felt there was a huge gap in the market for not recognising industry professionals, and also letting people out there know how powerful blogging can be. So many industries have not jumped onto the bandwagon yet, so I felt an award would showcase that and recognise people who are already doing it and their great achievements.”

I mentioned that this kind of blogging awards was a bit different from the norm, as there were so many already for lifestyle bloggers, and there were so many business and industry bloggers who didn’t get a chance. Gemma agreed:

“This is such a great tool; we’re going away from a culture of looking at websites to looking at blogs for information, as it is a great insight as to how that business would work – or the individual if you’re interested in just reading a blog from an individual’s perspective – what’s their insight into things, and what’s their inspiration and ideas. I just think there’s so many different aspects and angles to a blog as well and what it can offer people.”

So you think that people who don’t blog for their business are missing out as nobody’s reading their stuff?

“Massively, because it can show a further insight and it can showcase their intellectual property further. So for instance, if you’re a legal firm, I think it’s quite a big deal that you should have a blog, because you’ve got so much knowledge within that firm, then why shouldn’t it be showcased and therefore develop your clients’ trust, and it would create further credibility for the firm, and things like that? So I think it’s a really interesting aspect that a lot of businesses aren’t actually blogging yet.”

I asked her opinion about the legality side of blogging, particularly from a firm of solicitors, who might be extremely cautious about what they said in their blog for copyright, litigation and other legal stipulations. Gemma was ready for this:

“Well obviously referencing is a really big thing so that’s got to be acknowledged, so if there’s any litigation or case law that you’re referring to, you’ve always got to reference that. And there’s certain blogs that can easily provide opinion in whatever they want, that is if they are blogging as an individual, but as a company and a brand, I think it can get a bit more technical and complicated. What the technique is in direct opinion, so you’re not actually providing an opinion, you’re asking a rhetorical question. So you’re discussing a topic that might have been in the media; for instance, you could refer to a certain case law that was similar to what’s happened, so you’re not actually giving your opinion as such, but it’s a media debate for discussion.”

I asked her of those who entered the blog awards, was she satisfied to the amount of industries and professions who applied.

“There were probably some industries that I would liked to have had a few more entries, but we can’t expect everything in the first year.  And I also feel – what I’m really happy about, actually, is the likes of #bloghour – when we did guest #bloghours for the health industry, for instance, there were people who came into #bloghour who were involved in Twitter and were discussing blogging in their industry, but quite a lot of them didn’t have a blog, so they were saying they were going to go off and develop a blog as a result. That’s another thing I feel that the Blog Awards as brought into the industry this year, so even though we might not have got as much in each category that we wanted, or in certain categories, I feel that we’ve planted that seed and that’s the main thing actually.”

#Bloghour is a Twitter hashtag that facilitates a Twitter discussion every Tuesday evening from 9-10pm. After congratulating her on her success, I asked her how long had she been doing #bloghour? Apparently only since May 2013.

“It was a very slow start, with a lot of perseverance. And I suppose that’s one thing, if you’re sat on your own, you’ve got to keep going with it; there were some weeks with #bloghour and there was no one there, and I would literally be talking to myself, and there were so many times when I really wanted to tweet #tumbleweed [laughs] but I thought, no keep going, keep going. And I was actually on holiday in Majorca last August, and it was literally like a switch, and all of a sudden I had about 20 people participating, and from then that was it, so it was great! And I think it’s a great help for everyone as well; and everyone says it’s one of the best, and it’s really nice that people can come along. It’s quite a focused hour as well, people leave having actually learned something and having been inspired, so it’s good.”

#Bloghour has proven to be excellent at raising awareness, educating people, encouraging conversations, interaction and finding new friends, all within the realms of blogging. Twitter hashtag chatrooms are extremely useful for people to make connections within their chosen niche, and Gemma confirmed this activity helped towards raising awareness about her awards.

I asked Gemma if she used Twitter to find particular people, including me, to connect with her and invite them to join the awards. She used Twitter and looked under the hashtags and searched for top bloggers in order to locate and connect with as many people as possible to try and showcase and raise awareness for what she was doing. And then she just followed them to get them to notice her.

“It was as simple as that, and now we’re getting lots of followers and we’re no longer having to look as much, I must admit. There’s a lot of people following us now the word has got out, which is great, because it is a great platform that we’re offering to people.”

I asked Gemma how much publicity, media and PR did she get from the awards:

“We have had quite a lot actually, we’ve had quite a lot of regional PR for the actual winners, which is nice for the winners because that’s what it’s actually all about. [Regarding national coverage] Yes, we have had a few, but it’s been more regional actually. But in my eyes that makes it national anyway, because the winners are all across the country. It’s a lot more personal as that is what we’re all about. We’re not a big company, and we don’t try to make out that we are, but what we wanted to portray the whole way through is that we’re personal, and we offer that personal service to people. In the likes of #bloghour and email it’s not done by administrative staff, it’s us that’s responding, you know, just the organisers.”

I asked her what were her ideas for the future.

“Well, Blog Awards 2015, about which we’re currently undergoing conversations with various people, and the conference which we’re hoping to run in October if we can get everything organised in time. Again this was just something I had noticed that people weren’t being offered within the blogging industry, because there are a lot of people who just start blogging for fun, but they like to make careers out of it as well, which is very interesting. So I feel that people go on a bit of a blogging journey, and they start from the beginning, maybe not 100% knowing what it’s all about, leading to being an expert in their field and being hired in a company point of view.

“So basically I felt that it would be really good to have a conference that was a bit like a blogging journey conference, so it will be an exhibition with various suppliers that could help everyone, and also blogging platforms and with brands that would want to connect with bloggers in an exhibition area, but then also have a variety of workshops that everyone could choose to go to, but that would be relevant to their level, throughout the day, so if someone wanted to learn a bit about how to market their blog, or across social media a bit more, or know more about plugins, HTML coding, how to develop the right content, writing styles – you know there’s so much that it could actually cover, and there would be to certain abilities for everyone to come to. So that’s my initial thinking as what’s kind of lacking in the industry for bloggers.”

I reminded her that October was not very far away, especially since she had said she was only in the initial stages, but she didn’t seem to be phased by the prospect. It was definitely going to be a short turn around. Would it be held in a fancy hotel in London?

“Well, that’s the other thing about it, that I want to do, which we’re going to do in a couple of weeks, we want to do a blogging race predominantly on Twitter but also across social media, and there will be four or five different locations and there will be a vote as to where the conference will be held, because again I’m very much about people having a voice. I’m calling it a blog race, because it’s a blogging conference, to basically let them decide where the event will be held. So it’s a race for them to try and get their conference in the location that they would prefer.”

So if a large amount of people suggested Manchester over London, will it be held there?

“Yes, exactly, looking at the feedback from the Awards, there were some people who were not able to attend due to costs and things like that because it was in London, and I would like to give people a chance. If I get a lot of votes for Dublin in Ireland, because it is a UK National Award, then the conference will be over there, and if we get a lot of votes for Edinburgh, it will be in Edinburgh. It’s a really nice fun way for people to get involved in the planning as well, from their point of view. It’s been very important for us about the people’s voice; we did the same with the type of Awards that we put on, we asked people if they wanted a sit down meal as opposed to standing and networking, and the majority vote was standing and networking, so that’s what we went for.”

Well, Gemma, you certainly won’t be sitting around twiddling your thumbs for the next few months! I asked her how much events experience she had.

“Well, my parents have got a hotel in Cumbria, so I’ve been working in that industry since I was a child. I probably worked in Events since my my early 20s, probably about 10 years.”

Was putting together the Awards the same as working in her parents hotel and in the events industry? No, it was completely different, a massive learning curve, always learning something new every day and definitely very enjoyable, or she wouldn’t be doing it! Her co-organiser, Becki Cross, was a former employer, and they’ve been friends for about six years. It was from that time she learned about social media and blogging.

Gemma is a truly inspirational young woman, juggling her young daughter and family life around a career that is more than full-time because it is her own business. I’m very much looking forward to hearing about the developments of the conference in October, and the outcome of the blogging race to learn which location it will be held in, and also the next National UK Blogging Awards in Spring of 2015!

Just been too blogging busy to blog about my award

Winning the National UK Blog Awards Digital and Technology CategoryTo any normal blogging mortal, winning a prestigious blogging award would have been the first thing to write about the minute they got home.

But not me. I’ve been flat out since winning the Digital & Technology Category of the National UK Blog Awards. There’s all the social media notifications that are needed to be done, changing all my profiles to say “award winning blogger”, acknowledging the interaction I’ve had online, answering hundreds of emails, sending out press releases, writing guest blogs – yup, I’ve been busy.

Looking at my blogging awardIt’s been a whirlwind since Friday 25 April 2014 when I saw my portrait come up on the big screen and my jaw hit the floor. I was totally flabbergasted that they had chosen me! Along with my friend and star pupil Lindsay McLoughlin (who had been highly commended for the Individual Digital & Technology Category) we had created our own list of winning blogs, but I had no idea that I would be one!

Somehow I clambered up to the stage to collect my plaque amidst deafening applause, which I didn’t register. But I did manage to capture a little comment on the way: “She even looks like her logo!”

National UK Blog Awards plaque

This is a big deal for me. Winning this award has confirmed that what I am doing is OK. All those late nights busily tapping away, fathoming out the easiest explanation of various technical blogging bits, constructing my own simple brand of infographic to present content marketing in a way that bloggers of all levels can benefit from.

Thank you to everyone who supported, voted, retweeted and rooted for me. I was surprised to note I had far more retweets than any of the other bloggers in my category. And thank you also to the category judges, Mike Little (Co-founder of WordPress) and Tim Williams (Lumacoustics) for considering me.

I really should take advantage of this sudden rush of acknowledgement by raising my game. This website needs simplifying, and I need to promote my e-courses, finish my e-book, publicise my consultation resources and find speaking engagements. I have so much knowledge to share about blogging, amassed over the years from personal experience and professional studying, carefully simplified in my own specific style to make it accessible to all.

VOTE FOR ME BiB 2014 SOCIALMEDIA VOTE FOR ME BiB 2014 INNOVATEMy next venture towards blogosphere domination? I’ve been shortlisted in the BritMums BiBs Awards 2014 within the Social and Innovative categories. And so the procedure starts again, with tweeting, blogging, promoting, having conversations both off- and online, combined with speaking about blogging for beginners at BritMumsLive in June – let’s see if I can be successful twice in a row.

Where should readers comment, blog or social media? [Infographic]

After Copyblogger announced they were removing comments from their blog, various waves of agreement and disbelief rippled around the blogosphere, discussing exactly where should readers comment, on a blog or alternatively on social media.

Here’s an infographic that explores the implications of this decision:

Where should readers comment, on your blog or via social media?

And here’s some code you could paste into your own posts (via the text mode) if you want to share this infographic with your readers.

It’s a sad world we live in

Copyblogger is a massive blog with a huge amount of readers and followers. I expect their traffic stats are off the scale (well, for me they would be!). And this popularity would attract an incredible amount of responses – but unfortunately it seems that the majority, 96% according to their post, are not legitimate comments that the blog editors would want to publish.

This is a sorry state of affairs that there is so much spam kicking around the web that it is detrimental towards valuable commentary and feedback. Most of the comments that slip through my spam-eating plugins are still spam, since many spammers are now human and it’s not automated any more. You’d think they would give up by now, since there are so many systems in place to try and combat them – but perhaps the onslaught is so great, spam just cannot be managed any more.

Hence why Copyblogger is trying to beat the system by blocking off their access. Perhaps the concept of taking away the attraction will force the spam to go elsewhere. ‘Tis a shame the practice of trying to generate more SEO through comment sharing, by unscrupulous content marketers contributing inappropriate drivel on any site they come across, means bloggers have resorted to closing comments to counteract it.

Do blogs put off commenting?

Spam is such an issue we are forced to put in place measures to cope with it, such as Akismet (albeit invisible) and CAPTCHA (forces an action), that might deter proper readers from commenting on blogs. These preventative practices can be seen as a barrier for nervous readers, confused by having to type in something extra to gain access or activate publication. And even the moderation announcement can stimulate a sense of anti-climax, especially when the commenter expects what he or she has written to be revealed in all its glory.

“…this is what makes blogs different from websites, the ability for readers to leave immediate feedback…” Tweet this now!

Commenting is a deeply personal pursuit for some, and certainly contributors should be encouraged to pour out their heart and soul, as long as it is relevant to the post it is attributed to. The poignant sense of community, feeling part of a little world that has the same sentiments and desire to share it, needs to be cultivated and nurtured. The fact that there is a space below the post specifically for this function, immediately accessible and even providing incentives and gifts (such as CommentLuv), should be honoured and revered – this is what makes blogs different from websites, the ability for readers to leave immediate feedback in situ and at their own convenience, and we should not forget this.

Alternatives to how readers comment

It seems that much more interaction is happening on social media, and certainly this is why I have added the ability to comment via Google+ on my blog. The plugin provides the appropriate comment field (placed higher and therefore found before my blog’s comments), to encourage reader interaction. I suppose here there is no moderation or preventative methods in place to prevent how my readers comment, except that they need to be logged in as a member of Google+, so I am at their mercy as to what feedback they leave me, even if it’s only a +1.

And that’s a problem with social media comments, they have to be published first before they can be moderated (eg deleted), so the damage is already done if it’s malicious or unhelpful. This is particularly poignant for those who are not vigilant on social media, like me who only sees what’s going on when TweetDeck is open. I need to be tagged onto a social media comment before I’m notified (via email) that it exists, and unless I’m onto it immediately goodness knows what could happen, especially if I can’t envisage what my readers comment about.

What creates meaningful discussions?

Does social media offer more opportunities for in-depth discussion as ‘real-time’ interaction? Tweet this now!

This was one of the reasons why Copyblogger transferred its comments procedures over to social media, as they deemed more quality conversations were produced there rather than what was being left on their blog. Perhaps social media can offer more opportunities for in-depth discussion; certainly there is more of a ‘real-time’ sense of interaction, with immediate responses that appear without moderation and create the necessary ‘ping-pong’ for which an online conversation is characteristic.

This system is possible on a blog, but there is a time delay, even without moderation, with necessary refreshing required to find out whether a response has been submitted, or constant email checking for the subsequent notification. This hardly encourages a ‘meaningful’ discussion, more a stilted readers comment mechanism.

And the environment on social media appears to be more appropriate to cultivate more meaningful responses, more relaxed, easier access, less restrictions, freer space to write in, no spam deterrents to get in the way. Other contributors feel free to intervene and add to the proceedings, and the more interaction is produced, the higher reach these conversations command, due to satisfying the social media algorithm requirements.

Other benefits from removing blog comments

One of the bloggers that responded to Copyblogger’s announcement made an observation that I thought was rather poignant. Now that followers can’t comment on the blog any more, they are forced to comment on their own, and of course in a form of posts. More content is created to discuss the matter further – hopefully in an appropriately meaningful strain – and this all contributes towards what blogs have been created for (publishing content, of course), with lots of SEO flying about and backlinks to Copyblogger’s blog, about which I’m sure they are very pleased to receive!

Is social media more appropriate?

Interaction has moved on hugely from early day Web2.0 and the ability to leave comments on blog posts. Tweet this now!

There are pros and cons for using social media to capitalise on how readers comment online. These platforms are used frequently, without a lot of thought (sometimes) and are easily accessible via mobile devices. The method of leaving a comment has been structured for a spontaneous response, which is all about interaction and reacting on the spur of the moment. Things have moved on massively from the early days of Web2.0 when there was this fabulous concept of being able to write on someone else’s blog to leave your feedback. Now this function is done automatically with thumbs rather than fingers, quickly, efficiently, effortlessly.

But does this really result in full and well constructed discussions? It practically costs nothing to leave a one word answer, as I know from my children’s text replies to my lengthy and time-consuming mobile reproduced requests for information from them. Unless you’re connected up to a PC (or a Mac in my case), the long and meaningful response may not be forthcoming. Even tablets provide some restrictions towards composing a suitable piece of prose to counteract an argument or put forth your point of view. When typing with my eight fingers and one thumb (my left thumb is not used when touch-typing) the result is fast-paced enough to keep up with my brainwaves and thought patterns (and it’s a lot easier to edit, too).

How much control do you have?

As well as the absence of moderation, consider the ownership of these platforms your much sought after comments are placed in and the methods used how readers comment on them. Unlike your blog, which you can totally own, you are at the mercy of the social media sites regarding their publishing rules, algorithm changes for gaining reach and other access requirements, visibility to whoever wants or is qualified to see these comments, who is eligible or available to provide them – in fact, your control is quite reduced in what happens to these responses. And unless they are reproduced onto your blog through the appropriate plugins, not every reader of your post will get the chance to view every response that has been made.

And what happens about old posts? Blogs are visited regularly throughout their life, especially if the SEO positioned in them suddenly becomes eligible to a search request at a later date. Old social media responses, if they are still available to be seen, may not have the same impact than if they were hosted under the actual post. This affects how readers comment as responses below a post provide a more relevant sense of belonging to the source of the information.

There is this larger audience…

Social media does provide a larger facility that encourages how readers comment, as this higher visibility for posts gains a lot more feedback from a variety of different readers. Social sharing buttons placed at the bottom of posts, or floating by the side to attract attention, are there to stimulate altruistic tendencies to let others have a chance to read this post, or for the marketing minded who understand and value the promotional reasons that lie behind these call to actions, and by complying, hope the same will be done to their posts.

Community loyalty found and cultivated in social media, mainly through consistent and positive interaction, helps blogs to thrive through regular, constructive and meaningful comments. Encouraging this community effort, based around how readers comment, contributes towards combating spam, which is not tolerated within social media circles and now is subject to short-shrift tactics to eradicate or at least teach unwitting practitioners a lesson.

I still think blog comments should stay

Only bloggers who are hugely popular in social media circles or have gained a huge following over the years through reputation and clever and reputable digital marketing tactics will be able to successfully close commenting on their blogs without a detrimental effect. Some highly respected bloggers have never allowed comments, due to their celebrity status, so haven’t experienced how readers comment on their blogs. Some don’t approve of the barriers that are put into place to keep spammers at bay, as they feel it deters too many real commenters from attempting to have their say. Many are fed up with wasting their time moderating the usual rubbish that is submitted instead of the real thing.

But I feel to remove this opportunity for the ordinary reader to leave their comment at the bottom of the page is like denying their rights. It’s like when you want to retweet a particularly brilliant post you’ve just read and you can’t find the sharing buttons, the same applies when you want to leave feedback and those horrible words ‘Comments are closed’ torment you, and the sudden rush experienced to deliver your response rapidly wanes like a dying balloon with a puncture.

So how do you feel about where your readers comment? Would you like them all in one place, or dotted around the web? Does it matter where your comments come from and how they are produced? How much value do you place on social interaction and how do you measure the responses you get? And are you grateful for any comments on your posts (like me)?