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Blogging is sometimes easier than conversation

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For those who find it difficult to speak in public, a blog is a good fallback to being able to express yourself. It is not a barrier to hide behind, but a valuable tool to enable exposure of thoughts, ideas, concepts and observations that would otherwise go unnoticed, unrepresented and neglected  through lack of publicity.

I’m sure there are lots of people who prefer to write than speak. Embarrassment and shyness are just some of the symptoms that prevent speaking in public, and a blog allows intelligent conversations to happen that would otherwise be permanently silent.

Listening to the Today programme on BBC Radio 4 this morning, an interesting item came up. A lady with Tourette’s Syndrome was interviewed. This was interesting not because of the variety of tics she uttered during the conversation, but because of the fluidity and intelligence of her normal speech. She could easily have become a vocal advocate for Tourette’s if she was not so bothered by the extraneous noises she involuntarily uttered.

Because of her condition, which was actually quite severe, she had created a blogsite about the humorous value of her tics, accompanied by entertaining cartoons (created by her friends) to provide a pictorial element. This was her method of drawing attention and awareness of Tourette’s Syndrome in a way that did not undermine her situation.

But what intrigued me was that in her blog she is able to express herself as fluidly as her normal speech, but obviously without the tics. I only know this because I had had the opportunity to listen to her on the radio.  So many people who don’t understand Tourette’s would ridicule her outlandish tics, including the swear words, and if they bothered to spare the time to look beyond these anomalies, they would see, and hear, and now because of her blogsite, read about the intelligent person behind them.

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Walk your dog for inspirationAllow me to introduce Shelley, one of my mother-in-law’s dogs. Sadly she is no longer with us, but we used to love going on long walks in the Lancashire countryside with her, and as long as she didn’t encounter any livestock to chase, or any cowpats to roll in, it was thoroughly enjoyable.

So how does a dog tie in with blogging? Take a look at item 6 in this post http://fairyblogmother.co.uk/6-ways-to-find-inspiration-for-your-blog-posts which suggests taking your dog for a walk to gain inspiration. This has certainly rung true with some people, particularly dog owners, so it is worth highlighting this idea again.

Of course, it needn’t only be walking your dog (though answering to their needs is always a good excuse to down tools and get out for a bit of fresh air). I go running most mornings to try and get a bit fitter and lose some inches, as being a blogger sitting down all day in front of the computer does nothing for my general health.

This is valuable thinking time. It’s not worth forcing yourself to stick to a scheduled thought pattern, as the effort of running up a hill will wipe it clean from your memory. Just let your mind provide its own agenda, and the most amazing things will pop into your head – some good, bad and downright annoying! If you can, find the earliest opportunity to write them down, to prevent the most fantastic idea you’ve ever had from evaporating away.

Of course aerobic exercise will drive oxygen to your brain to help clear it from extraneous material – literally brushing away the cobwebs. “A change of scene is as good as a rest” is a well-known quotation, and sometimes it’s worth putting an idea into your head and then going out to let the subconscious take over. If sleep eludes you because of a good idea, write it down to look at it again in the morning, allowing your brain to rest and work its magic once more.

And the idea of writing draft posts as a dumping ground for your thoughts and observations is another example of clearing the decks to allow your posts to develop and mature away from the computer screen. Not everybody has the ability to ‘just type’, and certainly it has been proven that immediate posting is not always a good idea – notwithstanding spelling mistakes and grammatical errors, but a turn of phrase or a particular word could cause offence or construe to a different meaning.

Hey, you could go running with your dog – good exercise for him too! Let’s hope one day I won’t be regularly disgraced by being passed by two older, fatter ladies happily chatting to each other as they jog along, while I lag behind red faced and puffing…